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Hard-Heartedness: What We’re Seeing and How to Guard Our Hearts


Pharaoh didn’t start out as a villain. He became hard-hearted by repeatedly resisting truth.

Each time God gave him a chance to listen, pride took the lead. That’s how hard-heartedness forms—small refusals that pile up until compassion can’t break through.


We see the same pattern all around us:

• people defending their image instead of doing what’s right,

• systems protecting power while ignoring pain,

• hearts turning numb because caring costs too much.


But God still offers the same remedy He gave through Ezekiel:

“I will remove the heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.”


And Proverbs 4:23 gives us our responsibility:

“Guard your heart with all diligence, for out of it flow the issues of life.”


To guard your heart means:


  • Stay tender to conviction. Don’t explain away what the Spirit exposes.

  • Keep compassion flowing. Don’t let disappointment make you cynical.

  • Practice humility. Admit when you’re wrong, forgive quickly, and let God fight for you.

  • Feed your soul. Worship, rest, and truth keep the heart soft.



The cure for a hard heart isn’t outrage; it’s openness.

While others grow cold, we stay teachable, forgiving, and aware.

Because once the heart closes, freedom stops flowing.


“Lord, in a world of hard hearts, keep mine soft.

Let humility overcome pride,

and love be stronger than fear.”


Reflection Questions:


  1. Where might I be resisting the softening work of God in my own heart?

  2. What daily practice helps me guard my heart so compassion doesn’t run dry?



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